Wednesday 24 December 2008

That Could Have Been Me

Over at Veg Plotting I've already spoken about how I love receiving everyone's news at Christmas time. However, sometimes that news catches you by surprise and gets you thinking a bit.

I've just had a long e-mail from E and M, the couple who are responsible for NAH (though of course he wasn't NAH at first!) and I meeting. I'd signed up for a photography evening class in Durham just after I moved there to take up my first permanent job, and I'd got to know them well. Over a pint one evening, we discovered a mutual liking for swimming, so I was invited to accompany them to a weekly social swim at Whitley Bay leisure pool. That's where I set eyes on NAH and liked what I saw immediately. However, it soon became clear he was already taken, so I had to put him out of my mind.

The months passed and I became friendly with some other guys from the swimming group. J invited me out, but that was a once-off. It turned out he'd decided that he was going to find a girl to marry and invited a succession of us out one week. I think I was Tuesday, K was later on in the week. That's who he married - I went to their wedding ceilidh. E and M had news of them, having kept in touch and I smiled at the memory I've just told you about.

A few more weeks passed and I was convinced either P or M from swimming would ask me out. In the meantime E and M arranged a pub lunch (at The Cock O' The North pub!) and walk around Durham one Sunday. That afternoon NAH and I talked to each other non-stop, even though his girlfriend was there. Somehow we contrived to exchange phone numbers and for the first time I contemplated taking the initiative and asking a boy out instead of the other way round. In fact I geared myself up to do so - 'if he hasn't rung up by the time this side of the record's finished, I'll do just that'. The record was City to City by Gerry Rafferty. He phoned during the last track. The rest is history.

What of the girlfriend? Well, just after NAH and I got together, she started going out with M (yes, one of the guys I thought would ask me out) and married him. Sadly this Christmas' news includes M dying from leukaemia this year. I'm not saying I would have ended up marrying him had we gone out together, but you never know. So I'm counting my blessings an extra time this Christmas. Strange how you think things will happen one way, then fate lends a hand to completely reshape them isn't it?

Sunday 21 December 2008

What Timing


The wand of good fortune has waved over us this week, not once but twice. We've both had one of our Premium Bonds picked out for a prize. You can always tell when these arrive in the post, so the envelope gets oohed and ahhed over until the ceremonial slitting open by the winner takes place. It's almost always the minimum prize, but welcome nevertheless as the spoils get shared for us to spend on whatever takes our fancy.

I feel the need for a little light shopping over at Amazon coming on...

Tuesday 16 December 2008

What's in a Name?

This has got to be one of the best headlines ever in my view. EmmaT seems to think so too. However, I think Skimble and Jess would be a little peeved if I did get a dog.

Namewise the past couple of days have been a little trying - Victoria's in agreement today. Blotanical has had one of its revamps (sigh) and as a consequence we've had to re-sign in with our user names. For most people it's not a problem as their name is more than 4 characters and there aren't that many duplicates even though membership's over 1,000 strong. However, I've had to leave go of VP in there and it's been quite a wrench. VP is me!

I've got very fond of her over the past year even though VP came about by accident. When I signed up for a blog, I was soon faced with a decision on what I was going to be called. Being totally naive in the ways of blogging and the internet, I was more than a little nervous about being my true self. Also Veg Plotting was a bit of a mouthful and I imagined people not wanting to type in my whole name when leaving comments, so it seemed sensible to shorten it to VP. It immediately reminded me of the hilarious cartoon strip Bill Tidy used to do for CAMRA called Keg Buster. The main character's name always got shortened to KB in the strip itself, so VP's also a bit of a homage to Bill Tidy's sense of humour and characterisation.

Having read Victoria's piece today, it's been great to see the speculation from others on what my new Blotanical name would be. It actually mirrors the thought process I went through. Veg Plotting? No, that's the blog, not me. VeePee? Better, but I might get a few jokes about the Pee bit! So, eventually I plumped for EmmaT's occasional name for me - Veep. It retains the quirkiness of VP and rhymes with beep. What could be better?

If only VP or Veep had been acceptable to Emma's revamped Indyblog - it's the full blown VegPlotting on there nowadays. Help - I'm in danger of developing a multiple personality in here!

Sunday 14 December 2008

Secret Santa!

We offer a 'Secret Santa' service to our neighbours at this time of the year. We take in their larger presents which they might find difficult to keep hidden from excited, prying eyes. This year we're looking after this very pink motorbike which I'm sure E is going to love - don't worry, she's only six and doesn't read this blog. Until yesterday it was a very large box in our dining room, but then M came round, put it togther after E had gone to bed and returned it to us for safe keeping until the big day. Do you think she'll let me have a go?

Saturday 13 December 2008

How Far Can You Make Coffee Go?


How far can you make coffee go? In my husband's case much further than you think. We have a bit of a weekend ritual, the kind of thing that marks it out as different and more special than the rest of the week. Part of that ritual is a pot of freshly brewed coffee. This morning was no different. Except he caught the pot with his sleeve and in rescuing the coffee, our favourite mug fell to the floor. The one bought on the last day of our holiday in Australia 5 years ago.

It may not seem much to anyone else, but that little mug has bought so much pleasure. I can clearly remember us deciding to buy it in the gift shop close to the Central Station in Sydney and wrapping it up carefully to survive our trip home. We don't usually go for china mugs, never mind one by a wildlife artist, but this one reminded us of the trip to the koala hospital just outside Port Macquarie on the first week of our holiday and a whole host of other things about that magical trip. I smiled at the memory of such happy times every time I reached for it when the kettle was boiling. Ah well.

The coffee went all over the floor, cupboards and a wooden trolley we keep the television on. Even the insides of drawers and cupboards weren't immune to a touch of coffee grounds. All needed cleaning ready for the Christmas holidays, but I wasn't expecting to do so quite as soon, or as thoroughly - coffee grounds are the pits to clean up! Until we go to Australia again, this picture of our little broken mug will have to suffice.

One day I'll write up the diary of our trip I kept whilst we were on our travels. Perhaps then you'll understand just what I'll be missing from now on.

Friday 12 December 2008

Wiltshire Without


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Here's 42 pictures taken this year which haven't appeared on Veg Plotting. I hope you enjoy them. The show's called Wiltshire Without because all the shots were taken outside of this fair county. A lot of the parishes around here have two main components: a Within part - the central area, which is in turn surrounded by a Without one. This often extends well beyond the built up area.


Guess what the Wiltshire slideshow's called...

Wiltshire Within




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Here's the sister slideshow to Wiltshire Without! 31 photos taken in 2008 around Wiltshire and not posted over at Veg Plotting.

Sunday 30 November 2008

Introducing Your Messages

The Garden Monkey's always a good source of entertaining or thought provoking material and yesterday I was delighted to be sent this link to the intriguing Your Messages project. The challenge is to write a 30 or 300 word response to a thirty word theme and a different one is posted each day in November.

My regular blog is just on a year old and although I have posted more than 1 post per day during that time, I live in constant fear I'll run out of things to say. That's why I signed up for a WEA creative writing course at my local Arts Centre recently. It mentions fear of the blank page and is aimed at both fiction and non-fiction writers, so I thought I would give it a go. I'm finding I'm well outside my comfort zone. For me the class exercises are quite trying - we have 5 minutes or so to come up with a response to an idea, write it down and then talk or read to the class about it. That spontaneity is very hard: everyone busily writes away and I stare into space looking for inspiration. It's my transition from logical, informative viewpoint to a more creative world that's getting in the way. By the end of each class I find myself close to having a panic attack.

So I've decided to try Your Messages as my own class exercise to get over the problem. A quick read of the theme, then 5 to ten minutes to come up with a response. I'll be trying to avoid cliche whilst keeping an awareness of what if and the element of surprise. My responses are posted as Comments on the website - but I also want my own record of what I've come up with - where better than here in my Box of Delight?

This post forms the start of the series, but of course will be published as the latest one posted, even though it's the first. Ahhh, the joys of blogging!

Here's the explanatory blurb from the website - together with my commented response to it. Using 30 words of course!

November 2008 and Your Messages is Back...

...by popular demand! But in a different incarnation because there’s no way we could duplicate November 2007’s amazing project that culminated in the launch of Your Messages at the Poetry Café in London in February this year.

Every day during the month of November 2008 we will post a writing prompt of exactly 30 words and you’re invited to respond, via the comments box, with your own original piece of writing which may be either exactly 30 words or 300 words long.

At the end of the month we’ll be choosing one response as the overall prize-winner (although we may well comment on one or two others as well) and the writer of that piece will receive signed copies of our books: Leading the Dance, Learning How to Fall, Something Beginning With and The Oven House.

And how will we make our decision from so much fine writing? Here are a few things to bear in mind:

1.There should be some kind of link to the prompt, e.g. theme, image, word or phrase
2.It should be a stand-alone piece of writing.
3.It has to be brilliant! :-)))

We look forward to meeting up with as many old and new ‘Messagers’ as possible online from 1st November.

Let the writing begin. Again!

Sarah & Lynne


My Comment (the 17th to the original post):

What a brilliant idea! I'll get my thinking cap on now. And if that doesn't work, I'll enjoy everyone else's contributions. A great way to brighten our dull November days.

And then I looked more closely at the two organisers and realised one of them is Sarah Salway, who kindly donated to my Open Garden fundraiser. Even more reason to keep on trying with this during November.

Snowscenes

Your Messages - prompt for Day 30

He calls them his little worlds. With one shake, he can change everything - not just the weather but the way their stories end. He lines them up. Which one today?

It's the last prompt for the month and this year, so I felt it needed more than just my simple response. I'd also pointed out on yesterday's prompt they'd called it Friday again rather than Saturday, hence my thanking them for the mention in the introduction for today.

Thanks for the mention! I've thoroughly enjoyed my month here, especially reading everyone else's efforts. It's been so much better than the creative writing course I've been attending locally. And no, this is not a shameless effort to sway the judges - it's what I think! Good luck to everyone and here's my final effort:

My nephew often lives in his own little world and whispers conspiratorially to his special companion. My niece teases him mercilessly. He emerges from his reverie shaken but not stirred.

Now to add my responses to last weekend's prompts here (I missed them because we were away in Leeds) and to add some of the stuff from my creative writing course as a record for posterity!

Saturday 29 November 2008

Just One Cornetto?

Your Messages - Theme for Day 29

He wants a banana split with ice-cream, strawberry sauce and chocolate. And he wants it now. Otherwise he will scream. His mother sighs, sees too much of herself in him.

My response:

Knickbocker Glory's always been my favourite. A last day treat at Forte's on seaside holidays. With a spoon as long as my arm and eyes much bigger than my tummy.

Friday 28 November 2008

We're Off to See The Wizard

Your Messages - Theme for Day 28

The blisters make walking agony. She wishes she wasn't vain, that she wore flat shoes, stomped happily. Then she looks down and sees the red sequin flash. Home, she sighs.

My response:

Dorothy was tired of following the Yellow Brick Road. Her companions were really getting up her nose. She clicked her red shoes together. 'There's no place like home', she said.

I really liked today's prompt (my favourite so far), so immediately wrote another:

I love my wellies! Who needs high heels when there's all those splashy puddles to explore? Wheeeeeeeee! See - I can cover you in mud, no problem. I'll never grow up...

Thursday 27 November 2008

It's Better to Travel

Your Messages - Theme for Day 27

You can want something so badly it hurts, even when you know it's not right. The gold crucifix with paste jewels, the low cut t-shirt, the curly haired ticket collector.

My response:

What happens when you achieve the unattainable? It's one sweet moment of pleasure followed by a lifetime of loss and disappointment. Sometimes it's best not to arrive at journey's end.

Wednesday 26 November 2008

This Old House

Your Messages - Theme for Day 26

They ignore the dripping taps and the damp spots. Look at the cherry blossom view, he says. They kiss, they dance. Months later, they can't stop worrying about the cracks.

My response:

Hunkered down into the landscape, the old house had seen it all. Its cracked windows and skewed slates could tell many a fine tale. If anyone was prepared to listen.

Tuesday 25 November 2008

Go Fish

Your Messages - Theme for Day 25:

Ever since the Giant Pike Accident, he keeps his mouth shut when swimming. Alone in the night, lips twitching, he can still feel the fish flap deep inside. Searching.

My response:

He felt Esox lucius' kisses a thousand times in its quest for air and freedom. It mashed up his insides and brain until he could only speak in cod latin.

Esox lucius = latin name for Pike

Monday 24 November 2008

Champagne Charlie

Your Messages - Theme for Day 24:

She thought she might be one of those women who only drank champagne, wore silk negligees, smoked Turkish cigarettes, laughed twinkily and talked about nothing. Luckily, events worked against her.

My response:

The smart WAAF uniform and the thrill of delivering planes to the edge of the theatre of war was exactly the wake-up call she needed. She'd never felt so alive.

Sunday 23 November 2008

The Sorcerer's Apprentice

Your Messages - Theme for Day 23:


The magician who guides the sparkling glass spheres through the air might be performing a miracle – the way they seem to float above his palms. Sometimes not knowing is enough.


My Response (not submitted as I was away for the weekend):

'I've got all these balls in the air and none of them are coming down' said my first boss frequently. Such were the frustrations of working in the Civil Service.

Saturday 22 November 2008

Animal, Vegetable or Mineral?

Your Messages - Theme for Day 22


He said I was an egg. That meant naivety, a lack of development, but also strength. I said he was a turnip. He said, I don’t want to play anymore.


My response (not submitted as I was away for the weekend):

What's it to be - animal, vegetable or mineral? Or all three perhaps - the strengths of each combined without any weaknesses. Such is the alchemy dreamed of by misguided genetic engineers.

Friday 21 November 2008

Sucking Up

Your Messages - Theme for Day 21

Leeches were once a favoured species. They sang; their bodies were encased in mother of pearl shells. The first leech to taste blood said it was all a terrible mistake.

My response:

Today leeches are only of value to some medical practioners and all freshwater biologists. Hold up a freshly caught leech to anyone else and watch them squirm. 'Ewwwwww!' They exclaim.

Thursday 20 November 2008

The Truth About Cats and Dogs

Your Messages - Theme for Day 20

"If you want fidelity, get a dog. It’ll make you happier", my mother said. "You have dogs and you’re not happy", I told her. "I know. Bad dogs!" she laughed.

My response:

Our cats Skimble and Jess make me happy. They're funny, mischevious, playful and full of cupboard love. They're not high maintenance like dogs and are excellent nursemaids when I'm ill.

Wednesday 19 November 2008

The Longing

Your Messages - Theme for Day 19


When the baby dies, even the house seems to grieve. The front-door gasps as if light and air are too bright and sharp to meet. In one room, such silence.


My response:

But when there's no baby, no matter how hard they've tried, the world carries on regardless. Only the couple grieve. The empty room a symbol of their failure, accuses forever.

Tuesday 18 November 2008

A Weighty Tome

Your Messages - Theme for Day 18

The History of Doubts was the world's heaviest book. 'Are you REALLY sure you want to take it out?' the librarian would ask. The book always stayed on the shelf.

My response:

But Sally was certain she DID want to take it out. The librarian sighed and dialled the number of the forklift truck company they kept to hand, just in case.

Monday 17 November 2008

Some Day My Prince Will Come

Your Messages - Theme for Day 17

If I have to kiss another frog, I'll scream. I don't even want a prince. I want a girl on a bicycle and a picnic wrapped in a red handkerchief.

My response:

How about a hot air balloon? Freedom, randomness and breezes on our faces. Absolutely no princes. Just cold champagne to celebrate when we come down to earth with a bump.

Sunday 16 November 2008

And I Can Hear, See, Smell, Touch, TASTE!

Your Messages - Theme for Day 16

He keeps the beer bottle top in the pocket of his winter coat. Each time he slips his hand in, away from the cold, he remembers the taste of him.

Two responses today. The first one's a bit obvious:

Emptying her coat pockets revealed: a biro, some loose change, gloves, countless shredded tissues. A tattered piece of paper fluttered to the floor. His telephone number. Dare she call? Later.

I prefer the theme for the second one, but had real difficulty in restricting it to 30 words. With further research and time, I think it might be worth expanding into a 300 word response:

The Chinese five elements system defines taste as sweet, sour, bitter, salty and pungent. My western tongue needs to find the elusive pungency, to let it explode in my mouth.

It might have been better as:

The Chinese five elements system defines taste as sweet, sour, bitter, salty and pungent. My western tongue needs to find the fifth element, to let it explode in my mouth.

I don't know - the first version shows pungency isn't recognised as a taste in the west, the second attempt has more of a mystery to it. However I'm not sure about using 'fifth element' - is it a bit too repetitive seeing the first sentence contains the words 'five elements system'? I've let my comment on Your Messages stay with my original version.

Saturday 15 November 2008

Under the Carpet

Your Messages - Theme for Day 15

Score these words on ‘the funny scale’, with 1 being hilarious, and 10 being humourless: ping, kipper, boobs, diarrhea, macramé, tenderloin, poppadom, squib, lobworm, flageolet, demijohn, chomp, alpenstock, jig, underlay.

My response:

Underlay had always seemed such a dull, humourless word to her. Until she met her new boyfriend Tony, a carpet fitter. Now they were always rolling on the floor laughing.

Friday 14 November 2008

The Tracks of My Tears

Your Messages - Theme for Day 14

Five ways to cry and not be noticed: in the shower, staring at the sun, watching ‘Braveheart’, in a five mile tailback on the M25, in all sorts of rain.

My response:

He always cried crocodile tears. They streamed down his face, always on public display so he'd get all the sympathy. My tears were well disguised - hidden from view by fear.

Thursday 13 November 2008

Swimming Upstream

Your Messages - Theme for Day 13

On the map of my life I have coloured in a long, blue river. It runs underground in places, forcing its way through rock, but ahead, always, the open sea.

My response:

The Grand Canyon's an awe inspiring place. One tiny river carving its way through rock - a sliver here, a micron there. Down the millenia. I need to explore its depths.

For once, I thought of a second response based on the map part of the theme:

I've no compass, or map. The signposts are worn, indistict, confusing. I've no guide, so muddle through my life as a consequence. The shining horizon beckons - promising a better future.

Wednesday 12 November 2008

Dreamboat

Your Messages - Theme for Day 12

Are you day-dreaming? Yes, it's lovely. Come with me. Hop on this elephant, see the colours of the birds, listen to the river. Lift your face up. Feel the sun.

My response:

Dreaming's a wonderful thing. You're in the wildest of places, meeting the most marvellous people. It's a great use of imagination, but living? That's the real story.

Well, maybe tomorrow.

Tuesday 11 November 2008

Day of the Triffids

Your Messages - Theme for Day 11

The plant rooted itself in her garden overnight. Not a weed. Or a seedling. It should worry her, but she likes how the smug roses now look fearful, petals trembling.

My Response:

Once rooted, the idea took complete possession of her. Its tangling branches spreading far and wide destroying all her joy, laughter and hope. What remained was a deep, desperate despair.

Bah - JAS beat me to my first idea around The Day of the Triffids, and of course came up with something better:

The next morning they (and the stately delphiniums) had been embraced into a tangle of voracious tendrils. All that remained was a single cobalt petal and a scattering of thorns.

Monday 10 November 2008

Cum on Feel the Noize

Your Messages - Theme for Day 10

She had gone to the shop to buy some noise. She wanted disco dancing, pounding feet, screams. But then she saw the bottle of green cool silence on special offer.

My response:

She never could resist a BOGOF, no matter how useless. Once home, she opened both bottles.

Remember maths at school? Two negatives make a plus. What ensued was a riot.

Sunday 9 November 2008

Before the Storm

Your Mesages - Theme for Day 9

Each season the garden smells different. The heavy emotions wait in every corner to pounce. The roses store up grief, daffodils hope. The honeysuckle is the only one to cling.

My response:

In summer there's the smell of rain before a storm, accented with roses, lavender and tingling electricity. The earth opens up to greet them as the first heavy raindrops fall.

Saturday 8 November 2008

Half Century Not Out

My Messages - Theme for Day 8

After fifty years she ran out of curses. Just like that. She opened her mouth… and silence. It was the first time since her childhood that she couldn’t taste ash.

My response:

She rushed upstairs to the mirror. A new face blinked at her. New, but still familiar. Same wrinkles and greying hair, but radiant. The ugly duckling was now a swan.

Friday 7 November 2008

I Have no Worries, so Why am I Worried?

Your Messages - Theme for Day 7

He worried about: bed-wetting, not being picked for the team, crying, then acne, finding a clitoris, the last of which turned out to be the least of his worries.

My response:

"Tell me your greatest fear."

He spared her no detail.

"Now close your eyes and relax. We'll make that fear your strength. So you can conquer the world, Herr Hitler."

Thursday 6 November 2008

What's in a Name?

Your Messages - Theme for Day 6

Janet and John taught me all the essentials of English. Madeleine and Pierre took over in French. My life would have been so much easier if I'd been Susan and Someone.

My response:

Janet spoke eight languages fluently and used them daily in her role as an interpreter at the Foreign Office.

But to her husband John, she was always speaking in tongues.

Wednesday 5 November 2008

The Word According to God

Your Messages - Theme for Day 5

When God decided to write a novel, instead of just his usual private journal, he began to realize the importance of audience. And beginnings. And endings. Endings were really tricky.

My response:

Rules For Good Writing:

  • Have a knockout opening and ending
  • Avoid cliche
  • Think about 'what if'
  • Use surprise...

God sighed. All these rules. It was easier when he just created.

Tuesday 4 November 2008

Hey Baby, I'm the Telephone Man

Your Messages - Theme for Day 4

The message came in the night. 'Hey Rabbityroo, Graham-mahem here.' It's a wrong number, but she spends the day pressing replay, listening to Graham-mahem saying how much he misses her.

My response:

Graham was her first, her only love. She took him home for tea, but she never understood why her family teased her so much.

They were just five years old.

Monday 3 November 2008

Losing It

Your Messages - Theme for Day 3

Among the things handed into the lost property department today were: four pairs of spectacles, one laptop, three library books, six sets of keys, one red stiletto shoe.

My response:

He opened the handbags - a lottery ticket caught his attention. Must check that later. Now the laptop. The screen glowed with the MOD's logo.

An average haul for the day.

Sunday 2 November 2008

Ghost Trains

Your Messages - Theme for Day 2

The railway station is haunted by the mother of a baby snatched from there in 1955. As the train pulls in, listen hard. In the sound of the brakes, crying.

My response:

Disembodied voices, urgent whistles, slamming doors. Reunited families, hurried travellers, separated lovers. Steamy smoke, sweaty bodies, smelly cafe. Nothing escaped her frantic search: all evaded her. Everything fades. Nothing remains.

I'm not going to explain all of my responses, but I want to jot down my thought process for today, otherwise I'll forget how I came to write this. I firstly came up with Sound, Sights, Smells. These are the first 3 sentences - evoking what the young woman looking for her baby would be experiencing and trying to have a similar pace to a travelling train. I struggled with the next sentence - showing her looking everywhere, but fruitlessly. Halfway through that struggle, the last 2 sentences came out of thin air, demanding to be written down. So I did.

Saturday 1 November 2008

Coming Up For Air

Your Messages - Theme for Day 1

Scientific studies show that women can hold their breath underwater for longer than men. Don’t challenge any man to a competition though. Men underwater are far more dangerous than women.

My response:

Down, down, down into the deep,
Shiny irridescent pearls the prize.
Only she could reach them
With one breath.
He watched for her return,
So cunningly he could take them.

Friday 31 October 2008

Awards and Tagging

My regular blog, Veg Plotting becomes a year old on Sunday. Little did I realise when I took my first faltering steps I would be here now with 3 blogs in action and one of them nearing its 500th post. In the early, grey days last November, I couldn't stop the posts tumbling out of my head, though visitors were a bit harder to come by. Then little, by little they did and then some of them even left comments - my most treasured blogging possessions. Thus have a number of valued blogging friendships been born. Soon I noticed various tags and badges being awarded around the blogosphere and longed to join in. It felt like I was back at school - in the playground with all the kids, but no-one wanting to play or pick me for their team. Eventually that has changed and I've had the pleasure of joining in several tagged memes and been given several awards over the year.

I've also seen the nastier side of blogging. Thankfully this had been rare, especially when compared to the warmth, friendliness and generosity of most bloggers. However, the bad times can be depressing (and made me think about giving up on a couple of occasions), so this post is a reminder of all the good times to counteract all of that, nicely bundled up into one shiny package.

Some bloggers don't like to join in with tags and awards. They may be too busy to do them, or feel they don't fit with their blog content or style; they may not like the handing on and linking back aspects; or they may have had them so many times before, they feel they have exhausted the topic or friends to hand their award on to. I respect that, but so far I've chosen to join in. However, my tag or award is always given without obligation - no matter what 'rules' the originator may have given to their tag or award. It's may way of saying thanks to a blogger for the pleasure they've given, or to say I'd like to get to know someone better.

Displaying the awards given is also controversial. Some tags and awards have 'rules' which ask you to do so. I've chosen not to, except for a couple of awards I've been given after being nominated and voted for. An award from an entire section of the blogging community is a somewhat special after all! The others I've chosen to show as part of a post as I believe this still acknowledges the gift of the bestower, whilst ensuring my sidebar is kept relatively clear.

So without further ado here's my summary of my tags and awards from the past year over at Veg Plotting.

Voted Awards - also displayed at Veg Plotting

Sadly there's no glittering awards ceremony to accompany these, but they're much appreciated all the same.



September's inaugural Blotanicals saw my nomination for two awards - Best UK blog and Best Agrarian blog. I was delighted to be voted Best Agrarian blog and fourth for Best UK.


During May a lot of fun was to be had over at The Garden Monkey where a variety of humourous and teasing awards were up for grabs. I was nominated for a number of these (Favourite Way of Wasting Time, What's New Pussycat - well Skimble and Jess were, and We Are All in the Gutter), and carried off the award for Bad Poetry. I even wrote a poem to celebrate!

Judged Awards

In August the delightful Emmat held a virtual village show to coincide with the opening of my virtual garden fundraiser. There was plenty of fun. mayhem and stretching of the rules. It may have looked like any village produce show on the surface, but Emsworth was much better and just as keenly fought. I entered as many categories as I could which in turn garnered me the Emsworthian Medal for Achievement Across All Categories!

Nominated Awards

Authorblog has a regular Post of the Day slot where someone can nominate a post from other blogs they feel to be of particular merit. I've yet to make top spot, but I'm glad to have made runner up on several occasions for Signs of Tinsel Town, Hollywood Inaction and Strange Brew.

Passalong Awards


My first ever award! Given to me by my dear friend Threadspider in January. Hot on its heels a couple of days later came this one from another early friend, Flighty.


A month later, fellow ABC Wednesday contributor Dragonstar gave me this:


It went quiet for a couple of months, then the following arrived in quick succession:


A dual award this one - from the delightful Prairie Rose and Violtje.


Somebody knows me only too well - Suburbia this time!

This one came from Deborah, who used to live near here, but now is up to far more interesting things in France.


Finally in July, Victoria saw fit to give me this to put in my trophy cabinet.


Update - November 2008

I received this completely out of the blue from a blog that's new to me. Naturally I called the post about it A Gift From a Stranger :)



Playing Tag

Quite a lot of the tags I've been given are based on a random facts meme. My first one from Lisa last December asked for eight; three others (from Simon, Violtje and Gardening4Life respectively) asked for six - you can peruse them here and here and even here. A variation on this was a tricky questions meme from both Suburbia and Growing Our Own. I've seen several other versions of this tag too.


Tags don't have to be facts or questionnaires. I wasn't specifically tagged for this, but I did enjoy responding to A Life With a View's general tag (another idea for if you want to respond to a tag, but don't want to hand it on to specific recipients) to show off my screen saver. That brings me to another reason why I enjoy tags: they can be a great idea for a post. So why not use them as writing/photo prompts even if you haven't been tagged yourself?


Memes

There's lots of these on all kinds of topics. I'll be writing a guide to some of them at some point this winter. There's one-offs and regulars. Most of them have a shiny badge awarded to show completion or regular participation. An exception to this is Garden Bloggers' Blooms Day. I wrote a general guide to memes including this, plus another of my regulars here. Another exception to badge awarding is Garden Bloggers' Design Workshop - I participate in this, if I have a suitable contribution to make to the month's topic. By the way, badges aren't the reason why I decide to participate (else they'd be there cluttering up the sidebar on Veg Plotting), it's whether I have something to say that's the key thing for me.

However, here are my badges:

A double award - firstly badge for participating in February's Garden Bloggers' Geography Project...


...and the Blue Poppy Award from Bloomingwriter as a thank you.


ABC Wednesday

Round 2 - Completed July 2008, hosted by Mrs Nesbitt



ABC Wednesday Round 3 - in progress (Q @ 12/11/2008)


Garden Bloggers' Muse Day, hosted by Sweet Home & Garden Chicago on the first day of each month.

Wednesday 30 April 2008

April Flower Shower


April's sidebar slide show and first Garden Bloggers' Bloom Day post on 15/4/2008. All pictures were from my garden except the Cherry Blossom from around the corner and my next door neighbour's magnolia tree taken from our side of the fence.

Update - October 2008: This and the rest of my monthly flower slideshows can be found on my Open Garden blog.